Monday, January 19, 2015

How to become a better person

Visit the library.  Yep. To become a better person, visit the library.  Do you like to cook? The library has many cookbooks and even books on different styles of cooking to expand your repotoire.  Use some of those books and you will be a better cook.

Do you like to knit or sew? The library has books on different methods and stitches. Articles on better ways to hem or count stitches can be found as well.  Check out some of these book and you will be a better knitter or seamstress.

I think you get my point.  Yes, these books can be found in books stores and on-line, but at the library there are wonderful people who will help you find the right book and even suggest books or related topics to help you advance your knowledge.  History can boring if your reading a text book.  The same event will fly off the page and into your understanding when read from a first person perspective of a biography or even historical fiction.

Business people are always doing research.  Do it at the library! There are big tables and lots of space.  Many libraries now have free WiFi so your searches can extend to the web.  There have been times my small library does not have the specific book I am looking for. The librians are wonderful. They will request my book from another library and suggest another book or two on the same topic to hold me over until my book arrives in just a matter of days.

There are also people at the library.  I don't know how many times I have struck up a conversation with another mom between the shelves of books, each of us reccommending books to the other.  The library is a great networking place.  Visit often enough and you never know who you will run into today who can help you (or you can help them) later.

Crafters, dieters, runners, parents, executives all need to grow an expand their knowledge.  New technology comes out everyday it seems.  Books explaining that technology can be found on the shelves of the library.  People who understand that technology have probably read the book.  You could run into them and find those books at the library.

Visit yours today!

"You are the same person you were five years ago except for the people you meet and the books you read!" ~Charlie Tremendous Jones

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Life at Full Speed

Happy New Year!

After the relaxed busyness of the last two weeks, we have jumped into the New Year with a bang.  The Christmas decorations are put back in their boxes and stored in the attic.  The laundry was caught up from the holiday travels. We had a day with nothing planned and enjoyed it immensly!

Now school in back in full swing. Chores lists are checked off each day with no gift buying errands to interupt progress. Piano lessons are back on the schedule with the karate classes.  Christmas gifts are being put to use and communication between family members has relied on texting between the upstairs and downstairs a time or two.

Doctor appointments fill a couple squares of the calendar, regular check-up and a follow up for a broken hand that occured just before Christmas (cast coming off the oldest son this week).  Another day is colored in with karate testing.  Thankfully the pressure is low for this test as we are all taking mid-terms and not going for a rank change.  My wonderful husband must make a business trip and will be gone for two days this week and will miss the hectic-ness that these karate tests may bring.  He will take his own test Friday after he returns.

While Christmas celebrations are behind us, the year ahead is just as busy as last year.  And we enjoy it most of the time.  This busyness brings hard work, new milestones, and many happy memories.  When life gets too crazy, we pause. We go camping, geocaching, on a field trip, have a family game and movie night at home - anything to change the pace to prevent the busyness from overtaking the joy of our family.

Yes, sometimes we will admit our schedule is full to overflowing.  We trim back and stay connected to each other.  Sometimes we laugh when people say we are "SO busy".  These folks have three (or more) kids and each kid is in a different sport  or activity every night of the week.  To each their own.

Our family of four is active, connected to each other, and up for fun.  While we enjoy time together, we also know we each need time for our individual interests.  Youth group, knitting, reading, writing, gaming, whatever it may be we give each other the space to recharge in our own ways.

I am looking forward to this new year.  With all the hustle and bustle it brings, we are also ready for new stuff to do and to happen.

Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Out with the old. In with the new.

On this the last day of 2014, I am not making any resolutions.  Resolutions always fall by the wayside in two weeks or less. I am just going to focus on becoming healthier, which for me means losing weight, eating better foods, and drinking more water.

If anyone out there followed my posts through the month of October, you will remember I was focus on health then.  I still am.  So much so that I actually lost two pounds over Christmas.  I still ate the cookies and delicious foods that my wonderful family had made.  I ate cinnamon rolls for breakfast as part of our Christmas morning tradition.  I also exercised by getting outside and walking at a brisk pace 5 out of 7 days the week of Christmas.  Yes, I am very thankful for the unseasonably warm temperatures that made this easier to do.

Another step down this path is beverages.  Last week I had my last soda/pop/cola for a year.  I have given up those sugar filled drinks for the year of 2015.  This will be especially hard for me while traveling.  When ever I am in the car, I have a drink with me.  The easiest thing to grab from the cooler section of the quick stop (and what calls my name the loudest) is the cherry flavored sodas.  In a day of running erands, a giant cup from Chick-Fil-A will tide me over.  A trip of more than 2 hours requires at least two 20 ounce bottles of the bubbly beverages.  That had come to an end.

I will still have my drink at the ready, but the bottle or large cup in the holder at my hand will be filled with water, tea or flavored water.  So if you see me out and about and I am carrying a bottle that looks like soda, double check. I may have refilled it with tea or water.

Happy New Year everyone. Be Safe and Make healthy choices.

Sunday, December 28, 2014


Cards, picking the perfect gift for each person on your list, making sure all the right people are on your list (we don't want to forget anyone), cookies, decorating, scheduling time with family on both sides, wrapping, traveling, packing for traveling; oh the stress of Christmas.

The fun of receiving actual mail from far-off friends, driving around enjoying the decorated houses and all of the lights, giggles as gaily wrapped packages are stacked beneath the tree, shrieks of joy when a desired gift is opened, the amazed silence when an unexpected perfect gift is unveiled, the aroma of fresh baked cookies, the sighs of satisfaction at the first bite of a delicious dish,
the belly laughs that bring tears over cups of coffee late at night in the kitchen with the "women-folk", thumps of grandkids' footsteps as they play around the house, shredded wrapping paper strewn all over the floor, sharing games and laughter with cousins, numerous nativities in each room of the house with the Babe laying in a manger wrapped in swaddling clothes; oh the joy of Christmas!

The Joy of Christmas will always outweigh the stress.  On one level we are glad it is over and things can get back to normal, but on another, we miss the celebration of Christmas with all the pagentry, carols, and fuss.  We are disappointed we must wait for an entire year before we can do it again.

The Babe in the manger does not go away because the year has ended.  He grew into a Man who sacrificed Himself for me.  He is always with us no matter what time of year it is.

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Happy Thanksgiving

Two growing boys

A wonderful man

Plenty of food

to share with the fam.

A warm cozy house

with a big yard for fun.

So many blessings
and Thankful for each one.

Happy Thanksgiving from us to you.

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Happy Birthday

I love fall.

The colors of the leaves. 
The brisk nip in the air. 

Part of this love of the season may have to do with the fact that my birthday just happens to fall right in the middle of it.  This year we celebrated a day early as my wonderful husband had the day off and the four of us could spend the entire day together.

The morning began with a quick two mile walk at the park. And the bridge wasn't even slick at 7:45 am!
Skid marks from that dangerous walk!
 After returning from my walk (my hubby jogged his miles and walked a cool down lap with me), I jumped into a super fast shower and then headed for the church leaving the three guys at home.  It was the day of our regularly scheduled moms group.  I am in charge of making the coffee for 20+ moms who have just spent the previous hour(s) getting their children ready for school, making it to the bus stop/droppping them off at school, while getting themselves and any remaining children ready to get to the church by 9:30.  They deserve a cup of steaming hot coffee waiting for them.  I have the privilege of making sure that happens.  So after the coffee was made, I scooted back home.

Two cards awaited me on the breakfast table. One contained this:

While I was gone, my guys hid six items around the yard for me to find.  My very own geocache series for my birthday! I love my men so much! Such a thoughtful and wonderful fun surprise!

So after hunting and finding my caches, I am set.  Each cache was a tool to help grab actual finds along the trails.  

After that fun hunt, we loaded into the car and spent the day in Pittsburgh doing stuff our family loves to do.  We ended the day at a local restaurant that happens to have a fabulous bakery attached to it.

French Vanilla Cake with Raspberry Creme and Fudge
I feel very loved and treasured.  It was a fabulous way to spend a birthday. I even have leftovers from dinner for tomorrow, even cake!

Thursday, November 6, 2014

How to attend a football game

The four of us had the opportunity to attend the Boston College vs. Virginia Tech game in Blacksburg, VA.  For those of you who may not know, my wonderful husband is a Virgina Tech Hokie Alumnus.  He has been wanting to take the boys to a game for a long time.  Finally all the pieces and the timing worked out for this weekend.

The only thing that didn't cooperate was the weather forecast.  Thursday before the Saturday game they were calling for  90% chance of rain at game time.  A quarter inch of rain in the afternoon.  The game started at 12:30.

Not to be detered, we packed snowpants, sweatshirts, long johns, thick socks, boots and swim wear (our hotel had an indoor pool).  We each planned an extra outfit to have with us in the car for immediately after the game so we had dry clothes to change into.  We packed blankets and ponchos in backpacks to carry into the game.  Gloves were tucked into pockets and we were set.

We loaded the car and set off Friday to points south.  It was a nice day for a drive and the trip went well.  Thanks to the patience of my wonderful husband, we even made a couple geocaching finds along the way.    After a lunch stop, a dinner stop, and a couple of other necessary stops, we arrived at our hotel.  Upon check in and finding our room, we quickly changed into swimwear and headed to the pool (and hottub!) AHHHH

The next morning we were up and about bright and early to find snow falling and collecting on the ground outside our window.  An extra layer was added to our game bags and we hit the road for the campus.  As we drive the snow turned into a light rain and that eventually subsided.  We drove around my hubby's old stomping grounds and walked around the memorial.  It is a beautiful campus! After logging another couple of geocaches, we hit the student union for a lunch of really good burgers and fries.

We went back to the car, layered on our clothing and snowpants, then headed to the stadium for the game.  We had great seats.  We could see the band. We could see the players on the field close enough to even see the ball being passed from player to player.

The rain onlly amounted  to a drizzle for part of the time.  We stayed warm by cheering and rooting for the Hokies.  The cheerleaders were right in front of us, so we helped them as much as we could.
The boys even attracted the attention of the camera man and he put them on the jumbotron (the scoreboard) twice!

It was a great day, even though our team didn't finish with the most points. As we walked back to the car, after shopping a little at the campus bookstore, the littlest M asked if we could go straight to the hottub when we got back to the hotel.  I told him we could, right after dinner.

And so we did.